Review: Be Sassy Be Charming Lay On Vibrator

Be Sassy Lay On VibratorI recently received the Be Sassy Be Charming Lay On Vibrator to review for Orion, alongside a couple of lubricants. The package arrived quickly and discreetly as advertised, with the items being presented in a delightful boutique-style branded bag. The packaging for the vibrator was nice and classic, with no tacky images in sight.

The back featured a few snippets of information about the product and the front showed off an image of the toy which then pulled open to reveal the actual toy behind a window of plastic, display case style. It comes with the charging cable and a manual, but no storage bag.

This vibrator is made from silicone, which is a completely body-safe material due to it being non-toxic, non-porous and free from latex and phthalates. It’s completely odourless and hypoallergenic, so I have no qualms about the material. It feels of a high standard, appears to be well-made and has been put together nicely with no off-putting seams around the control panel, which is made from rigid abs plastic. The silicone feels smooth to the touch, but being silicone, it has a small amount of drag to it as I expected. I would recommend using a good quality water-based lubricant to maximise comfort.

Be Sassy Lay On VibratorNeither the box, website or manual specifies whether this toy is waterproof, but as the manual indicates it should be cleaned with toy cleaner and water, I would assume that it is. It does have an open charging port, so I am particularly cautious when rinsing to avoid any damage to this area and generally keep water to the top half of the toy and use antibacterial wipes around the base.

It’s a rechargeable vibrator, so the USB is simply plugged into a charging port and the jack is inserted into the base. A light will then flash to indicate charging, which will turn to a steady light once the charge has been completed. It takes around eighty minutes for a full charge, which should give around ninety minutes of play depending on the settings used.

It is operated by a simple two-button interface. A power button and one that resembles a wave. The power button just turns the toy on and off whilst the wave button switches through the various settings. There are seven of these settings, which included two speeds and five patterns. When I turned the toy on, I wasn’t sure what to expect in terms of power, but I’ve concluded that this was decent enough. The strength of the vibrations is average and I personally would have liked one more speed instead of an extra pattern, but this is my personal preference as I’m not a huge fan of patterns.

Be Sassy Lay On VibratorAlthough the strength of the vibrations are fine, the type of vibrations unfortunately are not. I found the vibrations to be on the buzzy spectrum, which would have been fine providing the vibrations were a certain type, but they turned out to be within the category of vibrations that I don’t like. I noticed within thirty seconds that these vibrations were numbing my clitoris and making me feel desensitized, which is something I really don’t want in my vibrator. I want to be able to feel the vibrations and enjoy them to the point of orgasm, but it’s just not possible for me to do that with this toy.

I find numbing vibrations to be painful, therefore I don’t reach an orgasm and I don’t particularly enjoy using the toy. I have used it several times and tried using a barrier of clothing in-between, to see if that would reduce the desensitising vibration, but it unfortunately did not. If the vibrations had a slightly lower pitch to them, then I may have been able to find a way to use this successfully, but as this was not the case, I have to say that this toy just isn’t right for me. I have quite a tough clitoris and it can take quite a beating from much stronger vibrations, so I would worry that those with an extra sensitive clitoris would find this even more painful than I do.

Be Sassy Lay On VibratorOverall, I really liked the presentation of this toy and I found it incredibly easy to use and charge, so I was left feeling disappointed when I didn’t enjoy using it. It’s quiet, body-safe and has a lovely shape, which means that the type of the vibration is the only thing that I dislike about the toy and unfortunately, that’s the most important part. If the motor was changed to something less high-pitched and numbing, then I would be happy to give it another chance, but as it is, I’ll have to sum up my thoughts on the Be Charming Lay On Vibrator as it being the wrong toy for me.

I received the Be Sassy Be Charming Lay On Vibrator (49.95€/£44.98) from Orion in exchange for my review. Thank you! No affiliate links have been used in this post.

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